Friday, May 23, 2014

Graduation!

I call this picture- "Poor attempt at a time lapse"

Anyway. I graduated from BYU a few weeks ago. It is a very bittersweet feeling. I love BYU and I am very grateful for the opportunity I had to attend such a wonderful university. 

So. Here are a couple of lists I made awhile ago. 
Things I learned at BYU
1-     How to love myself for who I am
2-     How to be alone
3-     That dreams are nothing without action
4-     Life is uncertain, and that’s okay
5-     Sometimes your heart aches, but that doesn't mean it always will
6-     Life is right now, not yesterday or tomorrow, but this moment
7-     Your life is what you do every day, in every moment
8-     Change is a necessary and wonderful part of life
9-     The ability to let go is a blessing
10- Love is an action, not some magical feeling
11- I can choose how my life turns out
12- There is no such thing as a soul mate, but there is one person I will end up with, and I get to choose that person
13- It is very easy to start a bad habit, and rather hard to let it go
14- Life changes very quickly, it rarely remains the same for long
15- Sometimes no matter how much you want something to work, it just doesn't
16- Life is unexpected, so don’t worry about what could be, just live
17- It’s okay to say goodbye to people
18- Life is beautiful
19- How to say I love you
20- How to show affection
21- I get to choose if I will do what God wants me to do, or what I want to do- but I need to pray to figure out what God really wants for me
22- Living is an action
23- Eating gummy worms will not make me feel better, ever

24- How to be vulnerable

Things I learned about myself at BYU
1-     If I had to choose between a meaningful conversation with a friend and an adventure, I’d choose the conversation. Unless the adventure was with my friends, in that case I would get both so it’d be a win win
2-     I would do (almost) anything for a friend
3-     I care deeply for people
4-     I still can’t seem to let go of the past, I live there frequently
5-     I don’t like change, it makes me sad.
6-     I have a lot of dreams that I don’t act on out of fear
7-     I have a lot of potential and the ability to impact peoples lives
8-     The only person I can truly save is myself
9-     I don’t like doing or folding laundry
10- I wear hats a lot
11- No matter how tired I am I can’t seem to go to sleep at night
12- I often let my emotions control my actions
13- I have faith in God
14- I know that the Book of Mormon is a true book and that the LDS church is God’s church
15- I like to preach to my friends
16- I feel empowered when I’m trying to empower others
17- Sometimes I don’t listen because I’m too busy trying to say what I want to say
18- I’m afraid of love, but that’s a fear I want to face
19- I’m not very good at playing the dating game
20- I love mountains
21- I love being around people and interacting with them
22- Apparently I like to write poems to get out my emotions
23- I’m not very good at consistently doing laundry
24- Stressing gets me nothing but a headache
25- Sometimes it snows and is cold and wet and my foot hurts, but the view is great and my heart can still be full of joy

So yep. I graduated.

3 comments:

  1. I love you, amazing child! I learned a lot while you were in college too. Thanks for helping me learn even at my age. Go Claire! I yelled that after they said your name (and cum laude) at graduation and then I cried because it felt like the end of an era and a whole bunch of hard work and because it's the last time for me to yell, Go Claire! in that kind of setting (your accomplishments in school) unless I get to come to your graduate school graduation. Anyway, I hope you know what I mean, maybe only moms really know what they mean but I tried to express it. Keep going forward and keep giving it your best, Love, Mom

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  2. I love this post :) Awesome way to summarize college and very thoughtfully put together. Love ya sister. Wish we could of gone to college together....as in we were closer in age...not that I wish I was still in college when you went....lol :)

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